The Way

Most of us learned “the way” early in life. Some of us learned it from our parents, some from our teachers or other adult role models. The way we learned was the way they did it. We observed, or they told us, how to live our lives; and in what order to do things. Typically it went something like this, get an education, get a job, get married, pursue/advance in a career, have kids, retire, enjoy our grandkids. For some, this may still be the way, and for more and more people, this is only one of many choices. Today we have more choices, and for most of us, a longer time frame during which we might choose multiple ways. For example, I know a grandmother who became a lawyer in her 70’s; and recently heard about an architect who became a restaurant owner in her late 40’s and a physician who became a professional singer. So, as you think about your way, whatever stage of life and transition you are in, consider deciding first what is important to you and then choose the way that supports that. One of the driving reasons I chose to become an entrepreneur 25 years ago (after 20+ years in the corporate world) was flexibility. I wanted control over my day; I didn’t want to live on a schedule, and as silly as it sounds today, I didn’t want to put on pantyhose every day. :-). What drives you? And, are you living your life and career in a way that is consistent with that drive?